Hello My People
Someone once asked me, “Lizzy, what do you want the most right now?” And when my response was not “to walk again,” they were kind of shocked.
Oops.
Why People Expect a Different Answer
For many, the automatic assumption is that walking again must be the ultimate dream for anyone with a spinal cord injury. But life is not that one-dimensional. After more than a decade of living with my injury, I have learned that the things I want most are not always tied to mobility.
Yes, walking again would be a blessing, but it is not the only measure of a full life.
Life After a Spinal Cord Injury
What I want most right now is often what anyone else wants: stability for my family, good health, growth in my work, meaningful relationships, and the ability to keep showing up with joy.
Living after a spinal cord injury means adapting, but it does not mean putting life on hold. My wheelchair is a tool, not the sum of who I am or what I desire.
Why This Matters for Awareness
This little story matters because it challenges assumptions. Disability awareness is about showing the world that people with spinal cord injuries live complex, vibrant, and meaningful lives.
When someone assumes that all I want is to walk again, it reduces me to one part of my story. But my life is bigger than that. My goals, dreams, and prayers extend far beyond mobility.
Humor Helps Too
I share moments like this with a little humor because laughter is healing. When you can smile at the awkwardness, you also open the door for conversation and understanding.
Disability representation should not only be about challenges. It should also reflect the joy, the humor, and the unexpected realities that make life after injury so human.
Key Takeaways
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People often assume walking again is the biggest dream after a spinal cord injury
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Life goals for people with disabilities are as varied and rich as anyone else’s
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Humor helps break down awkward moments and spark meaningful conversations
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Awareness grows when assumptions are challenged with honesty and kindness
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Living fully means embracing joy, purpose, and possibility beyond mobility
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